In accordance with legal restrictions and our Privacy Policy, information relating to other users (such as messages they sent you) are not available, since our users have no expectation that their personal data, including conversations with others, will leave our systems.
This means that if you submit a request for an export of your data, only your half of your Gather conversations are made available-- so ask your partner to also submit a request.
Tap Submit a Request below and choose "Data Export" from the support topics. Make sure you're writing in from the email you used on your Gather profile and we'll be able to begin the process of generating your message history.
Please note that if either of you have deleted your Gather profiles, this information will no longer be available, as we remove all your personal information from our server in accordance with our Privacy Policy as soon as you delete your accounts.